Life is what  you want to make it. Happiness and Sadness are optional, it’s totally up to you what you want to choose. First time when I read this in Bhagwad Geeta, I was not able to understand this at that time but when I saw this video today, I thanks to God for what I am.

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Long time ago when I was a student I read a story LOVE ACROSS THE SALT DESERT, the story was a perfect example that whatever be the cultural difference among us, love has no boundaries. A love story of a boy and girl who belong to different country. Religion, caste, ethics become just words when the air is blissed by love. Memory loss has wizened my mind so I don’t remember what was the climax.

Then I saw a movie Heena, again a story on a similar line where the climax was not happy, the boy from India and the Girl from Pakistan, similar to that bollywood again made another movie staring Abhishek  and Karena. Sorry cannot remember the name. Well if you think that all this anecdote is just on papers, I would say its now you have a memory loss.

Pakistan Cricket maestro Shoiab Malik and Sania Mirza the Tennis icon for India made this story a success. Well their relation seems to be in a little controversy as of now, but they have taken a pioneering step and set an example that still India and Pakistan have some feeling of love for each other.

The facebook has a special page for greeting Sania Mirza as “Welcome Bhabhi “, clearly the immortal apathy among the two country men seems to be coming to an end. The only question I have will this marriage bring any harmony among the countries ? Or their story will be another LOVE ACROSS THE SALT DESERT.

The present India Pakistan relation is self explanatory, the relation in recent decades have not been so good,Future is difficult to judge, what I can do, is to wish that they remain happy and may be thier step could bring sweet thoughts for both the country.

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Sorry readers for a long time I was not able to focous on my most loved hobby writing, reason is that I was working on something new. After all I got that. This small blog is to tell you guys that LOVE is actually is not all about emotions. To be emotional you need not to have, I say you need an Internet connection ! Surprised this is how it works. When Banking on net it was termed eBanking, commerce it was coined as eCommerce, similarly when Motion of thought among different people came to internet it is called eMotion.

This time I want to say that love happens not because we don’t have controll on our heart, its because of some underlying reason which I am going to proof with some mathematical formula and one graph.

The graph looks like some geek type sketch but friends this what we do in our lives. So the story begins now, First we should know what is an Indifference curve, an indifference curve is nothing but a locous where at any point we have a same satisfaction of anything, food, boose or for the matter of fact GIRLS and or BOYS. In the adjoining diagram Curve A and Curve B are such two curves.  The assumption here is any point above this curve is actually our desire. Threshold is any point on the curve. So consider this as an indifference curve for your desire to have girlfriend, anything above this point or on the curve is what u want. For example the three point on curve B are all same to you, i.e all three girls are same keeping in mind you have no money constraint.

Now we include the money constraint, a straight line with a constant slope. any point under this curve is what you can spend. Threshold is point on the line. Now considering the first point ( Mrak Red ) , the girl is on the indifference curve but still you cannot date with her as this too high considering your budget, so you reject that option. Again considering the point ( Mark Green ) is again on the indifference curve but since now you dont want to date with this cheap ( I mean not costly ) girl you again landed rejecting this girl. You keep on moving on the indifference curve until you reach the point third ( Mrak Purple ), now this gorl is on the indifference curve and also on you budget constraint graph.

This is the point where you are most likely to get a feeling of love for her. This is the point where u will have enough money to spend on her, go to date, CCD, Barista gifts on some stupid 14 Feb and pay your phone bills. This what I have to say Graphically.

Now considering the above situation mathematically, take your indifference curve as $, i.e

f(x) = $ —- eq(1)

consider your budget constraint to be a function g(y). Now from the graph, the probability of developing a feeling for any girl is at the point where the budget line touches the indifference curve. Mathematically we say that first derivate of the indifference curve is equal to the budget constraint.

g(y) = diff( f(x) )  where diff means first derivative.

Now the application part to study the behaviour of boys. I hear of so many break ups these days, people say its because of incompatibility, I say its because of this curve. When there is rise in Income or budget the straight line moves up, now the old indifference curve is well under your budget so now u want to move to a higer indifference curve, may be you want to have a High Society girl so you indifference curve shifts, leading to what we call Breakup.

I hope I am clear about my thoughts, there would be many who will not follow me but I guess this what I have observed supported by some mathematical equations.

Give you thoughts to me.

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Blind dates are just like any first date in which either you goes down or make someone so. You have a lot of trunkful questions in your mind which are co-related to one another. The questions are like what does she look like? Ok what will she wear jeans, skirt or something more fashionable? Local or branded? what exactly should I wear? Should I go for shopping……? These all questions are useless, don’t fear because she is already in fear.

In blind date we are bound to excited but don’t let that excitement to cause you to make an unsafe choice. Many a times you have heard nerve-wrecking stories like he/she was on her blind date when this happened, so this becomes important to be a little bit aware before going to this idiotic game…..sorry(actually one of my close friend got fu***d), who knows one could found his true love or make a good business deal).

Don’t expect much more, first date should always be set in such a way so that you both can make your first impression or to know each other.

Try to meet in some public place like in coffee shop and be sure any of your close friend should know about this and some information about your opposite.

Movies are great idea for date, you sit in the dark, corner seat, sharing popcorn and transporting yourself to a new world. But this is first date so you will obviously need to talk more and within few time you will be kicked-off from there making a great date. So  the moral of the paragraph is don’t go to movie on blind date.

Next, this is rubbish to say that google your date as you have already done this but for safety google, search in social networking sites like facebook, orkut or somewhere else and research if she is reliable.

For more preparation before dating read my article:

Top 20 things not to do on first date

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Love has different form , we can call it a love for a child from a father,mother. Love as a relation between teacher and students, or between youth. Love has been defined by many english laureates shakespear, Wiliam Wordsworth (others I dont remember ). According to them it is a bond between two individuals so that they can share all what they can’t share with others.

However today we find this a little hard to digest ,I mean the word LOVE, well call it western rising defination or whatever today SEX is the new synonym for love, you don’t need to go far ahaead , today teenage affairs are common act in metros and so the teen sex, does it mean that what our english laureates said needs to be changed, or we are on the verge of moral decline, the phrase I LOVE YOU  has said to have a hidden meaning that means I WANA HAVE SEX.

I dont say all of us think like the same way but yes many may be 99.99% of us think,( .01 % are like me ). Well the story does not ends here consider the youth working class who date like anything today, with every passing months they say the word LOVE to a new girl, the relation starts with a cup of coffee and ends in the bedroom.

It is that the word SEX has become an integral part of our life, even if it so then why people are afraid of say that I want to have a comfort sex, are they ashamed or think the word LOVE sounds more moral and civilized. Whatever be the reason but I guess the words have different meaning. Sex is no doubt that a blaze but is short lived while love sounds boring but is eternal

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Is Love is for the young ? many would say sure, if I say Love is not only for the youngs ? Many would keep silence may be they themselves are envolved ( Talking about uncles), surely today the boundary of love is not limited to youth rather it has now enlarged it sphere, its not only old aged are getting envolved in affair but trends begins from teenagers . Well this article is basically to show some insight why there are more old age affair in our society. Clearly Richard Branson (Virgin ), Viijay Malya (Kingfisher) and Hugh Hefner (Playboy) show that new may be fashion but Old is still Gold. Well as such there is no scientific research done on this topic as to why elder youth are getting affair, unofficially there are many theories as to why this happen but no concrete evidence, some say its maratial problem, some say they need change some say its psychological attitude change. Still you think that this piece of blog is junk, here are some facts about what I am writing : * The contemporary suggest that today average age for romance is nearly 40 yerars. * Nearly all aged person like reading of them nearly 84% read romantic novels * Nearly 170 millions romantic novels are sold in an year. No doubt that these readers have some conection to romance be it a youth or a old man. Now talking as to why old men easily fall in affair than their female counterparts. There is a widespread belief that women will lack interest in sexual relationship with their menopause, thereby tepting men to get allured by the outside beauty, many indulge in love because they have lost their wives, or dont trust them any more or they want something exciting. some find that aftr years of their marriage they think that they do not have the right partner. Some big household think after having such hard work they ought to have some adorable time , so they need some bubbling company. Well clap sounds from 2 hands, there one more reason why old age affair are being common is that today girls want a person who is rich , setteled, there are many bussiness man who have wives who are younger than their daughter. Still I am not sure why this kind of romantic trend is existing, is it men have more desire or its the trend that is being continued, well some one said that its done beacuse after 25 years of marriage men change the gear of their lives, its like changing from Honda Civic ( High Performance ) to Skoda Laura ( High Luxurious Class ). There is no problem with whats goin on , untill you are just a spectator ( GUESS YOU GOT THAT ). I may not be able to convey my ideas completely but guess u must have got some insight, hope you would find this article as an outofbox kind.

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• First date always sounds like an interesting subject and many people makes it worst or a boring date. A well known fact that you can never get a second chance to make your first impression and the first date is your first impression, so please handle it carefully. In many cases first date becomes the last date, so one should know what not to do on the very first date. I am suggesting twenty things never to do on first date.
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1. Don’t wear something in which you don’t feel comfortable.
2. Don’t be late(it shows how you value your first date it’s better to reach a little bit early).
3. Don’t talk about yourself too much.
4. Don’t check out other people around you(even you see the sexiest lady till now).
5. Don’t mention your last girlfriend/boyfriend thousand times.
6. Don’t ask how many boyfriends she/he have had?
7. Don’t say you are not in a good mood(like I am stressed today).
8. Don’t meet her in a crowded  place, choose a cool place to meet.
9. Don’t say you are sweet, cute or just like my mother, just feel her that she is great, beautiful and extraordinary.
10. Don’t ever try to flirt with a cute waitress or someone else near you.
11. Don’t talk materialistic like your wallet size, car or anything else if she is not having these and don’t try to buy a woman because a woman who comes to you for your money is not your woman.
12. Please don’t talk more or laugh when you have enough food in your mouth.
13. Never ever let the woman pay first even when she insist you showing how stubborn she is, she is just checking you.
14. Don’t talk negatively or the things like politics, share market or much more about your family.
15. Don’t through 20 questions one by one to know her.This certainly shows you are not going to date second time.
16. Don’t drink too much.
17. Don’t use your cell phone to chat how your date is going on or anything else just focus only on your date.
18. Don’t don’t and please don’t lie on your first date, after all this is a matter of faith and being loyal to each other.
19. Don’t reveal too much personal information on first date, make some scope for the second.
20. Don’t ask for a kiss, stupid just do it (if you are feeling comfortable) otherwise you will miss a great thing for that day.

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